Another more simple explanation is that it's titillating for women to imagine being so passionately desired that a man can not control himself around her.
Instead of being coldly impassive, these theologians claim real love passionately feels the feelings of others, the highs and lows, the sorrows and joys.
He proposed that each individualnot society or religionis solely responsible for giving meaning to life and living it passionately and sincerely (authentically).